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Some things are worth
thinking about twice.

The lives we build. The choices we make. The things we outgrow. And the questions that tend to show up once we're finally old enough to stop pretending we don't have them.

Especially the inconvenient ones.

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A Good Life Can Still Be the Wrong Life for You Now. Sep 26, 2026

Here's something we're apparently not supposed to say:

You can have a good life and not want all of it anymore.

Not a terrible life. Not a life that's fallen spectacularly apart and given you a perfectly acceptable reason to change everything.

A good life.

Maybe even a life you once desperately ...

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How the Hell Did I Become the Person Who Handles Everything? Sep 24, 2026

At some point in my life, I became the person who handles things.

I don't remember applying for the position. There was no interview or salary negotiation. Apparently someone just looked around and thought, Mary will know what to do.

And, annoyingly, Mary usually did.

Maybe you know this job.

Yo...

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You Were Never Broken. But Some of the Rules Were Bullshit. Sep 22, 2026

For a long time, I believed that if I did life reasonably well, there would eventually be a point when everything made sense.

You know the deal. Work hard. Be responsible. Love your people. Pay your bills. Keep your promises. Build something meaningful. Try not to be an asshole.

Follow the rules a...

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I Changed My Mind. About Quite a Few Things. Sep 21, 2026

I changed ArcheSoul Return.

Actually, I changed quite a bit of it. The colors, the photographs, the website, the way I talk about the work, even some of the things I want to talk about in the first place.

And somewhere in the middle of changing all of that, I had a slightly uncomfortable realizati...

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